Replaying Conversations in my Head

I can turn anything with my husband and I into an argument. It just depends on the mood I am in. Now don’t misunderstand me, we don’t fight more than the average couple. But I have noticed that I can always try to win the disagreement. I almost always think my ideas are better than his ideas. And keep in mind, I can most of the time prove why they are better, but does that help bring us together? Does that count as communicating? In every relationship that I know of, there is